Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Chongoyape

I finally found out where I will be living and working for the next two years. The name of my site is called Chongoyape and is in the department of Lambayeque in the Northern coast of Peru. My tiny site of 289 people (290 with me now) is an hour from the capital city, Chiclayo, and hour and a half from the beach. I was thrown off a little because I actually had stated a strong preference during my two interviews here to be put in the sierra with really cold weather and a large community. I’m also 45 minutes away from a national reserve called Chaparri. They have different types of endangered birds and spectacular bears living there.

My site visit was a rollercoaster of emotions. After getting dropped off on the side of the road, I had to walk into the tiny village, with my counterpart, for about 10 minutes to get to what would be my new home. I passed nothing but fields of corn, rice, tobacco, etc. Come to find out my family hast two: one of corn and the other of rice. As I walked up to the little adobe house, I saw my new mom and dad waiting outside. She’s about 4 feet tall and was super excited. Nancy, my mom, was telling me how excited they were about the new light bulb they had installed in my room so I could have better lighting. She walked me into their really really humble home and straight to my room to leave my bag; my jaw just about dropped. It was dirt floor, no door or closed windows, and a “paja” (hay) mattress that was as hard as rock. The bathroom was a latrine outside and the shower was, well let’s just say there was no shower. I did not want to offend her by any means so I stayed quiet. She looked worried and kept telling me in Spanish, “I really pray that you can get used to our poor lives and living situation because I have been waiting for you to come live with us for so long and we are so excited to have you…I want you to be happy here.” I had a knot in my throat. I was emotionally culture shocked. That evening we had lentils, rice and a fried banana. I was exhausted and decided to go to bed. I lifted the blanket that was on top of my pillow and it was covered with tiny ants! Yes, ants. I didn’t want to be dramatic so I just called my parents over and they just dusted the bed off saying they didn’t bite. They also put some type of powder to kill the ant hole that was coming from my dirt floor.

After the ants were gone, I put a tiny blanket and pillowcase I had brought with me over the bed, lied down and started to cry. I was emotionally drained and asked myself “Why am I doing this?” My dad called that second. He talked to me and was so supportive. Out of all the great advice he gave me there was one thing that will stick with me for the next two years. He reminded me that I was there for a purpose that will change my life in the two years, after that I would go back to the states. Those people will not…it is their life there. So my job now is to help improve their quality of life by being there. He also told me that the material things could also be improved and fixed. From that second on I knew things were going to be OK.

I found out the answer to my question as to why I was doing this the next day. I went around town with my site mate meeting the community. They are all so wonderful and amazing! Everyone is so friendly. The organization I will mainly be working with is called ACOTOURCH. It stands for: It has an awesome youth group, group of artisans, and is funded by NGO’s. There is an unbelievable potential in this town I cannot even explain. I have an amazing, caring family and community. That is rare to find and I don’t think I can give that up because of my living situation.
My room will be fixed (more like reconstructed) and I can help them build a bathroom. I will cover any holes or cracks in my room, put a cement floor, install a window, paint it purple, and make it cozy.

Reality finally kicked in. Luckily I have cell phone service and am an hour away from the capital city. There’s also another town about 15 minutes away that has a population of about 17,000 people. Oh, there is also an airport, Starbucks and Pizza Hut in Chiclayo! o-m-g…I know.

This is our last week of training. I have two presentations left to give, Thursday is our going away brunch with our host families and Friday we are swearing in at the U.S. Embassy. We spend the night in a hotel and everyone goes off to his or her sites Saturday afternoon. I’m excited, nervous and scared.

My real Peace Corps adventure is just beginning…

5 comments:

  1. aaw the light bulb... so cute. dude im so proud of you, you have no idea. what a great experience. I know you'll do a great job helping your host family.... we've come a long way from menudo and our feet up on the desks at CC. ;) I'm sure you'll get used to it after a while and when you get back everything will be like a luxury. miss you so much. love you.

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  2. wow...you are at the start of a great adventure!!! every person you meet and experience you have over the next year will be with you for the rest of your life :) i'm so proud of you...my family asks about you all the time- i'll be sure to update them tonight! also, send me your new address. i have a little something to help you make your new room cozy ;)

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  3. Ana - your latest post brought tears to my eyes. Sweetie - what an adventure. You are a smart, amazing woman and I am so proud of you. Your papa is very wise and knows exactly what you needed to hear. I have had those emotions working in India and Africa. "why am I here?" It all becomes clear. You are an angel sent to encourage and guide them, but the gifts you get back are much greater than you can ever imagine. I love you and I am so proud of you. When you want company - let me know - we will come. Also do you have the same cell number or a new one? xoxo

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  4. From your experience at Chongoyape, it is clear that the Peace Corps is not for everyone, it's only for those who are in it for nothing else but the passion for helping others, people like you.

    Stay strong and remember that you will look back at this and maybe laugh, but most importantly, be grateful. It is a small stage in your life that will stay with you in the huge stages to come.

    Remember we are very proud of what you are doing, and think about you every single day

    p.s. When we skyped, I hope your mom didn't get offended by my "experiencias dificiles" comment

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  5. I can’t begin to explain what kind of an impact your blogs have on me. What you are doing is not only a great lifetime experience but you are changing so many lives. I’m sure that every person that you come across with in Peru will also change your life. When we see your pictures, all we see is the great things of your Peace Corps journey. By reading your blogs we see so much more, we see what else is going on and the different emotions you go through. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us Ana, these next two years will be difficult at times but you will come back with so much more. May God bless you always.

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